Life has been good for us here, and I’m sure you’ve all been wondering how we’ve managed to create a situation of domestic bliss out of a humble flat of around 140 square feet and a limited budget (which felt quite insulted by the current exchange rate). Those of you who are raising children or who have already raised children may be snickering derisively to yourselves. Regardless, I thought I’d share some of the things we’ve learned.
First, let’s talk about laundry. When we arrived here, we were pleased to find a little combo washer/dryer in our kitchen. I’ve never seen a machine of this size that claims to both wash and dry your clothes (this is not the only occasion when a Brit would feel compelled to sigh and pat me on the head with condescending affection), and I admit that I was optimistic. It even had an “eco-sense” button. I’m still not exactly sure what it does, but it sure feels like I’m doing some good when I push it. The next two weeks involved a series of experiments and fruitless investigations in an effort to get the dryer actually to work. When we brought this situation to the attention of our landlady, she figuratively shrugged and said it’d always worked before. No doubt.
Luckily, in Europe, they prefer to heat their homes with radiators (we hear the boiler in our bathroom click on and off continually), and I have learned to put the three radiators in our flat to good use as surrogate dryers. Even if our jeans do feel like cardboard (and purportedly J’s boxers too) when you first put them on, I still feel that we have made the most of a challenging situation. Of course, the size of the machine, and the space limitations of our radiators mean that laundry has to be done in very small loads on a regular, rotating basis. We’ve learned to get the absolute most wear possible out of our clothes, which in a sense, is a very good thing. One side-note: if you’ve never experienced the house-shaking power of the spin-cycle on a European washer, you don’t know what you’re missing.
Cooking and baking in the UK can be very satisfying, but some patience is required. J and I find ourselves commenting, “Wow, we just had a great meal for under ten pounds. We’d have paid at least fifty pounds for that at a restaurant.” This little game hasn’t gotten old yet. Since the flat we initially were planning to move into had only a 2-unit hob (British for stove) and a microwave, we were thrilled to be able to change to one with a full oven (albeit small), a 4-unit hob and a slightly roomier mini-fridge. The mini aspect of the fridge and the lack of a car mean that I shop regularly (probably every other day), but that’s ok because it’s a short walk, and it means we keep a lot of fresh produce around. Kew Village, with its shops and wholefood markets, makes the errands really pleasant. Since you pack your own groceries, I have also taken pride in becoming a speed-packer who makes the financial transaction with one hand while simultaneously packing up the milk and eggs with the other. I even finally have the local coinage down. I think my slowness in seeking out a twenty- or ten-pence was a cause of some mild embarrassment for J a time or two, who takes his mastery of the currency for granted.
To their credit, the British are committed to buying locally (and often organically) grown and raised produce and meats, and we feel good about the quality of what we’re eating. We’ve never seen more beautiful eggs. They also have a weakness for buying fairtrade products from third-world farmers, one which is exploited to advantage by stores across London, which are sure to stock their shelves with imported products marked fairtrade. Although I find it a bit contradictory to sell fairtrade green onions air-freighted from Kenya next to locally grown fennel, I realize that the “buy local” and fairtrade movements are motivated by different concerns. And, well, “consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds,” to misuse Emerson. Anyway, I admit that it makes me feel better about our consuming, whether or not it is indeed benefiting third world farmers. I do hope that it is.
As an American, I’ve grown accustomed to very well-stocked supermarkets (arguably over-stocked). But there have been a few amusing occasions when it required trips to three or four different markets to track down ingredients like buttermilk (doesn’t that just sound English? I was perplexed) or dill, not to mention chipotles or corn tortillas (which J craves from time to time).
Back to cooking. Our hob units and oven have a tendency to ignore the heat settings. If you want to bring a pot to a boil and then decrease it to a nice, comfortable simmer, you must content yourself with a rolling boil for a good twenty minutes before getting to that perfect simmer. This caused us a few unpleasant surprises at first. The oven can be a bit finicky as well, and I don’t want to discuss what happened during my attempt to bake my mom’s renowned coffee cake. But we’ve adjusted to the whims of the appliances. Cooking and eating well together is something that we value as a couple, and we’ve enjoyed some wonderful meals. One of the advantages of living on an island is the ready availability of good fish at good prices. We’ve taken to eating fish two or more times a week. I usually also try to bake something once a week. I did have success with some lemon-scented blueberry cupcakes with cream cheese icing. The lemon and blueberry combination works really well, and the buttermilk makes them moist and delicious. The woman who developed the recipe was awarded 20,000 dollars by Cooking Light, so if that’s not a recommendation, I don’t know what is.

If you are interested in the recipe, let me know, and I can send or post it. I wish I also had a photo of J eating his cupcake. Yes, they were that good.
Anyway, thanks for reading this long, rambling post. My advanced writing professor in college would have described its tone as irritatingly affected. I hope you didn’t find it so. To sum up, I should say that we live well, find humor in the few slight inconveniences and are very thankful for this adventure.
-HDE